"Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others."

 

We have to live a spiritual life, not just believe in it.

We will be sensible, tactful,considerate and humble without being servile or scraping.

We have to make amends face to face wherever possible.

Sometimes it may hurt another person to make a direct amends, therefore; we may write a letter to God asking for forgiveness and healing of the other person. (An example might be infidelity). This would be injurious of those involved.

We begin to see "The Promises" within our lives.

We begin to feel self worth, self respect, dignity, honor, and love for self and others.

We are no longer controlled by our secrets. We moved from the darkness into the light.

We accept life on life's terms with a renewed sense of inner peace.